This post is going to be very quick, as I’m at the airport right now. I’m also very disappointed. First, before we get into the problem-I feel like I’m going to need a Friendship Issues page, or a little series about it. Anyway, here we go.-
So I was basically just checking my news-feed (my reader I guess it’s called that or something, idk) and then I saw one of my friend, Mango025’s diary entry post. Basically, she got a message from her best friend, just saying that ‘I don’t want to be your friend anymore, I don’t care what you think, I like pushing you off all the time’ That’s it.
Even though it wasn’t my problem, it was my friend. I’ve been working on a page about friends, because I believe, during youth, we are very delicate. Okay, I sound like a collage proffesser right now. Sorry.
The things that ticked me off about this person is-
A. She just randomly out of NO where just says dumps her best friend.
B. She didn’t even give a reason WHY.
C. She was rude. She shouldn’t have been. The news she was delivering wasn’t something that a person would be happy to learn about especially when it’s said so rude and out of no where.
I’m lucky that I have such good, close friends. And I can’t believe how careless and reckless some OTHER people are.
And one thing about ME is that I’m very soft and polite. I shouldn’t be that soft though.
Honestly, I don’t care what people say behind my back. If they think you’re an important enough subject, well, then it’s obvious they’re jealous of you. You shouldn’t care what other people think, because really, who are they to drive your car? You’re the driver. They just happen to be the speed bumps along the way. (Okay, I totally came up with that. Even if it’s a real saying, IDC. I still said it first, lol)
Anyway-gosh I say that a lot.
Another reason is that- D. WHY didn’t she say it to your face? Is she SCARED or something? If you ask me, they are a coward. And I’m not just talking about that specific person, but ALL those OTHER people in general. I ain’t hatin’ on that one person. I ain’t like that. I ain’t Texan either. I ain’t feel like stoppin’. K, I’ll stop!
And here’s one thing you should know:
It doesn’t matter what other people think. It’s you. It’s YOUR opinion which matters. Because only YOU can steer. Other people can try to push you, but you can only let them. People get jealous. People get mad. People blow out this jealously and anger on other people. It doesn’t mean you’re nothing. It means there are better people out there, it means the people who talk about you behind your back really care enough to waste their time talking behind your back. They care. You shouldn’t. You don’t have to change for anyone, and you don’t have to listen, if they try to push you off your cliff.
That’s what I wanted to say. Thank you.
PS: I know I’ve been typing a LOT of spelling errors recently. I haven’t been proof reading at ALL, because I don’t like to, and because I’m too lazy. And right now I don’t have any time! As you know I’m traveling. Like RIGHT now I’m at the airport. I’d really appreciate it if you could comment the error I made. You should know I was in a hurry, but I wanted to get my points across. So please comment down, I won’t take it as offense of course, since I’m requesting. 🙂 Thanks!!